Communication Coach

Welcome to your personal journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

I'm your guide for seeking clarity, productivity, and influence in your life. So… why me? Well, I used to be just like you.

I was the quiet girl, observing everything and everyone. I spoke with a small voice. I never dared rock the boat. I never stepped into the spotlight. I even sabotaged myself. I remember doing this to avoid winning my 6th-grade spelling bee because I couldn't handle the thought of everyone celebrating me or being the center of attention. But I knew deep down that I wasn’t showing up as my true and authentic self.

When I was twelve years old, I saw my first professional play and was mesmerized by the actors. I thought to myself, How can they stand under the lights with all those people watching them… AND showcase their talents?

At that moment, I knew that’s what I wanted to do. I want to be seen and heard; gone were the days of ending up in the shadows. I was ready to shine. In high school, I enrolled in drama classes. Eventually, I went on to study acting in the DC Metro area — but deep down, I was still searching. The truth is I had no idea who I was. I hadn’t found my voice.

I was like a marionette going through the motions of what I thought I was supposed to do. I got my MFA in theatre pedagogy and was awarded an adjunct faculty position teaching public speaking — becoming a strict taskmaster as my professors had been, which completely defied my true nature of being a nurturer. I graduated a semester early and earned a position as the head of a speech and drama program at a midwestern community college. I ran a growing program, taught classes, and produced AND directed three shows that year. But something was missing. 

I felt lost and out of balance — like my exterior was taking form while my inner self stayed vacant. I was like a hollow chocolate candy. These feelings continued throughout the first year of my Ph.D. in Theatre Arts (which I graduated from in 2009).

It wasn’t until I stepped onto a yoga mat in 2005 that I discovered a path toward finding my truth.  

Eventually, I completed multiple yoga certifications and the Lessac Certified Trainer designation, where all the dots started to connect. Initially, in 2006, I wanted to learn the Lessac work to be a competent teacher of acting upon returning to my students in the fall. 

But one evening in class, I asked a pedagogical question to one of the master teachers. She said, “I’d like you to focus on being a student and not a teacher. Just experience the work.” 

I was taken aback: She had handed me a permission slip just to be ME. I didn’t have to be the smartest person in the room. I didn’t have to be good at anything. I could be a curious human exploring my voice and movement. I happily immersed myself in self-study for four weeks. It was like yoga with my voice. And this was where I realized it…

My voice was a tool to look inward and develop myself!

I noticed warmth in my voice as it vibrated towards the front of my mouth. I became interested in what I had to say because of how it felt to say it. I felt empowered yet vulnerable. 

This work would ultimately heal me and offer me an important tool to help others. But this wasn’t the end of that quiet, mouse-like girl I thought I’d left behind in the past.

When I had my daughter, I became a stay-at-home mom. I even passed up an opportunity for an incredible job; I wanted to be fully present for my daughter. But I felt my sense of self retreating. I spent my days going through diaper changes, battling aching back pain, and cleaning up spit-up all over my shirt. It wasn’t that I didn’t love being a mom, but my inner critic was taking over.

I felt invisible. My voice became small and retracted.

Thankfully, my certification mentor told me to return to my practices to bring my voice back. I could barely believe I had let these practices go from my life, but I knew she was right.

I started exploring embodied voice work as I read books to my daughter and felt myself come back. My voice became strong again. I re-engaged with yoga and my meditation practice.

And I began to feel grounded, focused, kind, and like me again. I know that taking care of myself goes beyond simple commercial self-care practices. It means getting real with myself through a lens of loving-kindness and radical honesty to clear out the clutter that clouds my heart and mind. It’s the most important work I do each day — because only then can I follow through on being clear, productive, and influential. Only then can I be the best mom I can possibly be. Only then can I show up fully, authentically, and truly ME.

I created a two-part system that helped me discover my true voice (that’s “voice” with a capital V!) that I now teach others so they can do the same.

This system contains meditation, analytical tools of actor training, and voice and speech practices to bring your voice back into the picture (your speaking voice and your INNER VOICE as an individual).

Over the past ten years, I've coached lawyers, architects, middle managers, vice presidents of major companies, creatives, and team leaders using this exact system. The result? They all have found increased clarity in their expression, work-life balance, re-ignited excitement for sharing their work and ideas with others, and even better sleep.

You, too, can be clear in your mind and heart. 

You can be productive without heaps of caffeine. And you CAN be influential without feeling fake or pushy in your professional and personal relationships. Being attuned to your authentic voice is the key.  

This approach goes beyond the surface. It's about overcoming inner obstacles — whether it's an internal critic, uncertainty, or overwhelm. No matter where you are in life, it’s entirely possible to discover your real voice and true self. This is your time.

Let’s work together so you can become confident, focused, clear, productive, and influential. 


Melissa’s Professional Bio

I am a 700-hour certified yoga teacher and a Lessac Certified Trainer. My educational background includes a Ph.D. in Theatre Arts with a focus on embodied training. And I don’t just talk the talk…

I live and breathe yoga and BodyVoice. These practices have helped guide me through the darkest times in my life, ensuring I remain courageous, resilient, and faithful to ME. I have also used these teachings throughout my career, applying them to my work as a college professor of performing arts for 15 years and as a private communication coach for 12 years, working with professionals all over the United States.

In my personal life, I meditate each day, which helps me feel grounded and regularly in tune with my headspace, heart, and body. I regularly check in on myself and whether I’m living with integrity and ask: Am I being kind and honest with myself and others? Each day, I strive to honor my well-being in body, mind, and spirit. I consider this a personal responsibility that benefits me and allows me to do my greater work in the world and help others.

I have countless books and articles about the Bodyvoice work, yoga, and embodied actor training. You can check out a few of them here.

A bit of the nitty gritty:

Academia

Bachelor of Arts, Theater, George Mason University

Master of Fine Arts, Theatre Pedagogy, focusing on directing, Virginia Commonwealth University

Doctor of Philosophy, Theater Arts, focusing on acting theory, University of Oregon

Yoga

200-hour yoga certification, Sun and Moon Yoga Studio, Arlington, VA

300-hour advanced yoga certification, Sun and Moon Yoga Studio, Arlington, VA

200-hour yoga certification, Yoga Synergy Yoga Studio, Sydney, Australia

Certifications in Applied Anatomy and Physiology of Yoga certification with distinction (Yoga Synergy, Sydney), Prenatal and Postnatal Yoga (Bliss Baby Yoga, Australia), Restorative Yoga (Bliss Baby Yoga, Australia), and Mindful Resilience for Trauma Recovery Yoga Teacher Training (Veterans Yoga Project, USA).

Bodyvoice with Lessac Kinesensics

Certified Trainer of Lessac Kinesensics granted by the Lessac Training and Research Institute (my certification process began after exploring 700 hours of the Lessac Bodyvoice work, then the teaching and studying began to earn certification!)


Testimonials

“I feel like I have a true path forward and know how to live abundantly daily. During the program, I learned how to reschedule my days, add meditation to my life, change my morning routine, realize when my most productive times are, and I began sleeping so much better!”

Julie W

“I have been working with Melissa on Mindfulness for the past several months and it has been transformational. As a busy trial lawyer, stress has always been an issue, and through Melissa's help and guidance, I have learned techniques...such as a 5-minute morning mindfulness session to ease into the day and short reflective breaks during the work day...that have greatly reduced my stress level. Her helping me focus on my "true self" has given me the strength, courage, and wisdom to shed those activities and commitments that do not fully align with who I am. Her guidance regarding taking care of my emotional, physical, and spiritual self and thinking about how much energy I have to devote to personal and professional obligations has helped me focus on what is truly important. As Melissa continues to be a wonderful resource, I plan to continue working with her and recommend her wholeheartedly to those seeking a more balanced and fulfilling life.”

Tom Curcio

“Going through Melissa’s coaching program was nothing short of transformational. Her program helped me uncover the origins of my imposter syndrome voices and learn how to handle them effectively. I am now much more effective and intentional, in the office as well as in other facets of my life. If you find yourself struggling with imposter syndrome, wrestling with hard questions about your “why,” or are just seeking to live as your best self, Melissa is the right coach for you.”

Andrew Robertson

“My energy level before the program was low and nonproductive. Now I feel free. I’m not tied down to suffering or feeling lost anymore. I’m clear on who I am and what I need to do to be the best version of myself. I know how that will impact my career for the better, my personal life, and my work as a mom.”

Theresa S.

“My stress level has dropped. I know how to be my most productive self during the day. I feel confident and hopeful instead of stuck and like I don’t have control. I feel like I’m finally blossoming.”

Jessica J.

“This program put me in a position to examine my past and set clear goals for my future. Because of the foundation of this program, I was able to attract and accept a new, exciting position! The curriculum and training taught me how to ask for more. My new role has a title increase, more pay, and, best of all, I finally feel my contributions will be appreciated!”

Ashley E. 


Learn and grow on your schedule with short but effective practices on my YouTube channel.

I share tools, practices, and mindset teachings to explore Bodyvoice work, effective and clear communication, yoga practices, and how to live a life of integrity while quieting the inner chatter that holds us back.

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